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they tell us what to do to cope, to accept things, to ground ourselves- BUT WHAT THEN? validation is great, but it isn’t a solution. I find it really frustrating that there aren’t any straight answers. (and, i’m supposed to say ‘and,’ not 'but’ but AND the english major in me doesn’t like that also i’m not supposed to say 'supposed to ’ also i am still adjusting to not technically being an english major anymore but i don’t need labels/a college degree to validate my existence i am still SOMETHING i just don’t know what right now except obviously not an english major because this is not the correct way to use semi colons or parenthetical remarks.)
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She couldn’t put herself in Edward’s shoes and understand what this news would do to him.Going to group is getting easier, i think, but i still can’t tell if it’s helping any. From where Rosalie’s sitting, maybe she thought this whole thing was a temporary blip on their eternal radar and Bella would run away screaming sooner or later, or Edward would get over himself and stop putting the family in danger over this human girl. And none of the Cullens use the word “mate” to describe Bella/Edward. She wants her brother back she figures if he really loved Bella all that much he wouldn’t have left her Edward’s apparently never had any romantic experience before so Rosalie doesn’t have anything to measure his behavior against, it’s all new. With the New Moon call I think she honestly had no idea Edward would go suicidal. And Emmett being so cool with everything do doubt feeds into it “Well Emmett’s happy so what I did wasn’t so bad.” Doesn’t mean she’s not still mad, and it doesn’t mean it’s not a contradiction with what she did re: Emmett, but people are complicated like that sometimes. She couldn’t see things from his POV before, why someone who had obvious issues with being a vampire like him would create others, but when she made that choice from Emmett, she could understand now because she experienced it herself. I also imagine this was a watershed moment in her fraught relationship with Carlisle. I don’t know if she thought of it as romantic right away, or simply saw her friend’s innocent baby in Emmett’s boyish, dimpled face, but he would bring something new to her life either way. A gut-instinct thing. “Not him.” By the time she gets to Carlisle she might have realized that “damning” Emmett goes against her fury at what happened to her, but I think she also saw him as a chance at … something. In the moment she found Emmett, I sort of imagine it as the “not her” moment that Edward had with Bella and the van–she’s not thinking so much as reacting. She’s not really listening to Bella or seeing things from her POV (but Bella’s not really listening to or absorbing Rosalie’s POV either). So, Rosalie can’t understand why anyone would want to give up humanity. Rosalie can’t understand why anyone would want to give up humanity and the chance to have children and a natural life and death Bella can’t understand why anyone wouldn’t want vampirism, especially when it comes with someone you love. She’s not very good at putting herself in someone else’s shoes, and neither is Bella. I think a huge part of it is that Rosalie, like a lot of people, can only see things from her point of view.
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